Maybe women would be less stressed if they stepped up to the plate on that equality thing and didnt label all men as being untrustworthy. Yet its too a point where they force us to wear full gowns an sheets and anything else to cover our bodies. Just a suggestion on how patients might be more comfortable if theyre required to be naked in front of the doctor. Before the doc even started, I was squirming like a baby, and I started to feel cozy and happy, thinking maybe the painkillers had finally kicked in. I'm primary care. ", "Shy slightly nerdy guys. Its the first time Ive ever had a medical professional be so casual about nudity with me. A few months later, I go into a testicle specialist for a check-up. Hi Diane, I have a story with x-rays but here in the US. I had this dermatologist in NYC who removed a mole and he was a total pervert. I looked at her with my jaw dropped and it clicked a few seconds later that she was talking about the difficulty of opening the tool, and not my vagina. I'm almost sad.'. Head to toe rain-gear. After considering whether to strip completely I kept my boxer shorts on. haha. Each to their own I suppose. Suffice it to say Im NOT looking forward to my initial medical exam and the ones to follow! The doctor was a woman which I was kinda glad about but she had a male medical student with her. Bladder and prostate cancer If youre like most men, when you hear urologist, you think prostate exam. It was nice reading your experience and must say that being in the nude, male or female for a medical examination by a French doctor, especially a lady doctor. . I had to undress completely for a medical exam and the doctor was a French lady and her nurse was French also. The moment his shoulder came free, any leftover amniotic fluid and all the fluid they filled me up with burstout in one GIANTbirthing, liquid tidal-wave. You can also have a friend or family member present during the exam, in addition to the trained assistant. The doctor is in a position of power and as the patient, you want to follow the doctors orders he/she is the educated one who is trying to help so its only normal to trust them. Because as long as you dont cross the line, you can call whatever youre doing doctor stuff, you know what I mean? I mean even if its just for the patient to feel more comfortable, its worth it! ", "When theyre always the victim in conflicts with friends, coworkers, etc. He diagnoses me. Flexible cystoscopy. About the part you quoted at the end Im standing by what I said. He doesn't understand. They think theres some huge shame involved and for some reason its tough to shake them of that. Perhaps I have misunderstood your intention. Some health plans in the US dont have ER coverage or coverage has to be pre-approved so the doctor was just covering his butt. Many chronic pain conditions are part of a larger syndrome such as fibromyalgia. But there is a point in time where it crosses a line and becomes an abuse of the profession. I had had only a tshirt on, and a cloth draped over my bottom. I think people forget dry humor exists since everything is so exaggerated and in your face these days. We had a teenager come in with his mother (we were not a pediatric urology office but saw teens on special occasions with a doctors OK) .. kid was masturbating with a cell phone charger and got it stuck in his bladder. Im sure a female urologist has found a male patient or two attractive at some point or another, but if shes a professional, it wont matter. Are nurses ever required to give handjobs as part of a medical procedure? No, nurses are absolutely never required to bring any type of sexual release to a patient. Probably very insecure, desperate people, some poor sap dropping thousands a year to feel some modicum of affection. Im sure if I asked for a gown Id get one, its an unnecessary expense for what is questionable privacy since in a head to toe exam nothing goes without scrutiny. It wasn't awkward as much as interesting. @Just ME I was escorted to a room, told to disrobe right in front of her and then told again to remove my bra as well with her standing right there. Hi, yes we got it and my daughter is ok. Over here, sometimes, it feels like health is just like any other business like car maintenance for example. The testicle toss was coming up. After a few months I was able to get an erection and have intercourse with Trimix. I dislocated my shoulder in a snowboarding accident, and ended up in the ER. She offered me a gown, I asked why, she said it was purely for my comfort, and I said I didnt need it. We went in with cystoscopy to take a look and potentially remove it in office with no sedation. I took some ibuprofen, sucked it up, and kept playing. At my annual exams I am asked the undress gradually at different stages and eventually end up nude for the last few examinations. Living in athleisure. If I lived in France, Id just parade down the hall past the others stark naked if necessary and just smile and say hi. OnlyFans has really become quite a phenomenon. But Id still trust the doctor to do his job without the extras. WebCystoscopy is a test used to diagnose many conditions that affect the lining of the bladder or the prostate. I am NOT doing anything that is supposed to be pleasurable or having sex or taking anyone's virginity during exams. Thanks for the heads up Diane. When I asked one colleague about this he laughed and said something like, Only if theyre pretty, then its a nice treat. Physicians in the USA are so restrictive about covering nudity it is hilarious. He touches them for just a brief second, takes a step back, and exclaims Wow! She didnt stay in the room while I undressed, or afterward when I dressed, perhaps because she had other things to do than watch me. So, I went to the imaging center, did the paperwork, went into the room, and sat on the table. Happens all the time in the US, hence the nurse being in the room. I recently had a complete physical examination from my new primary care physician. I get ZERO jollies from it. But when youre at the doctors office and already feeling vulnerable, alone, with a male doctor who is older than you in a position of power, maybe it wouldnt kill anyone to let the patient hang on to some of their dignity via a gown, or get undressed in private or even a simple knock before entering. It collects your blood, you take it out, rinse it, and life is good. Its a very fine line indeed. I would suggest you read http://www.pol-editeur.com/index.php?spec=livre&ISBN=978-2-86744-603-0. For example, if I approached a woman on the street, ripped off her top & rubbed her stomach (hypothetically of course haha! that it took a while to get things going. She had been saying that it was very commonplace among the medical students who practice to attempt to push the boundaries of what is appropriate with a patient in terms of stripping. I don't know to this day if he was messing with me, but I'm pretty sure I just told him to Google it. Up until this point, I thought an embarrassing skin exam back in the US would have topped my list of embarrassing doctor exams. What surprised me in your blog was your comment re the gynaecologist. Did the doctor make you strip completely naked (no bra & pants) in front of them? It had been happening a lot lately, and I can usually fix it by massaging them in the shower. ", "The worst I experienced as a national cuisine: Kazakh. My health is always good and Not overweight either. While most of these cuisine options don't necessarily sound "bad," they do sound underwhelming and far less enjoyable to eat than our favorite foods. upon arriving in France, all newbies have to have a medical examination including a chest X-ray to check for TB before being issued a permanent residency card. As Chappelle would say. We take our beliefs and social customs with us and while I can learn about what the French do, just because Im here doesnt mean I will automatically be able to act French. Nor should I. Just some blockage in the vas deferens.. Sigh.) The first thing I noticed was his nose, and then his eyes. Obviously he had to go to the OR due to the giant knot tied in the cord. He starts off our encounter seeming somewhat suspicious like maybe I am a fetishist/ bored/ whatever, but Im probably definitely wasting his time. My dads a nurse, hell know what to do is what I thought. She squeals in surprise, and like four orderlies come running in, none of them bothering to shut the door behind them. Hi there Maite, happy to have you here! Granted, I have never been to Russia, North Korea, or Antarctica. So, eventually there was 6 people in the room, looking at my vagina in interest. If not, Id want to find another doctor. ", "I have a dry sense of humor. Does anybody actually like going to the doctors office? Everyone is encouraged to see their own healthcare professional to review what is best for them. WebHe probably tells colleagues this story over and over again. Im from the UK but I worked as a doctor in France for two years and I agree 100% that attitudes regarding patient modesty are completely different in France. While I did not understand much of the conversation (French love to speak in French regardless of knowing there is someone who doesnt speak French in the room), my boyfriend told me later he was glad that I couldnt because I would have said something rude. OK anyway, back to todays story. Then the tech would come back and knock to see if youre ready. Just let it slam. It wasnt a life threatening injury so you have the right to decline the x-ray even if the doctor recommended you get on. I.m used to being naked with her and the same female nurse, yet do feel somewhat embarrassed having an involuntary erection under all those layers of warm snug winter clothes, snug bib corduroy overalls long sleeve button up flannel shirt with opaque tights a long sleeve back zipper leotard and close fitting lycra undies. It slowly went away. I usually have no problem speaking up but I think in the moment at the phys therapist, I was more concerned with getting myself covered up and kind of froze, then focused on finding my pants instead of yelling at him to go away. Sometimes Ill go out wearing a butt plug and a pair of my wifes panties beneath my normal clothing. The thorough examination was carried out by a male, including a routine prostate check. Was your exam in the US? Im impressed you were able to stay relatively calm when that physical therapist walked in on you like that. The doctor told me to undress and I knew already that they often didnt leave the room while you did that in Germany so I just started. I know it was just procedure but it was sooo embarrassing! If you are frustrated on your journey back to wellness - don't give up - there is hope. As an American male and being helped by getting any snug and sexy attire off become just a natural happening with a French or European female doctor. 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